闽侯腊月待客习俗

畲族的名族习惯

畲族迎亲中还有"借镬","求蚧","对盏","留箸","千金饭","踏米筛拜祖","分酸"等习俗。畲家古俗"走嫁"时新郎新娘同行,女父殿后,"至婿家,亲宾已先匿,庭无一人,新妇必先詈之曰:'汝家绝人种耶!'众始出应之曰:'正赖汝来接人种耳'"(《建阳县志》卷二,《舆地志5附畲民风俗》。)。今俗迎亲新郎不。